unhealthy thoughts

[I-say]

This may be for females. But when your relationship ends. (but you still have a lot of feelings for your ex) And you suspect he has met someone else in a short space of time Does it do your head in thinking about him being intimate with someone else. It is with me.

[Redbel]

I-say.......thats a natural feeling. We don't like to think of our ex's being with someone else and doing with the new partnter what you know they did with you.

xx

[Redbel]

partner*

[I-say]

But how do you get over it Redbel?

[Redbel]

I-say......honestly in time you will stop thinking about your ex....you know, at the end of the day, they are getting on with their life...you do the same. x

[I-say]

Thanks Redbel. The crux of it with me is that he met someone else straight away. Whereas I am still trying to get over him.

Thanks for your help x

[Redbel]

I bet you have been thinking...... He mustn't have cared for me as much as I cared for him. You feel like the relationship meant nothing becuase he has gone out and met someone else so soon.

Hey you......I bet your are beautiful person...you are best off without him. You will meet that perfect person....believe me :).....I did :)

Take care I-say...... will be thinking of you xxxx

[Eurox]

Hey I-say im in the same predicament as you. My ex has moved to huddersfield for uni reasons and didnt want to try a long relationship but 2 months on it still hurts and I tried texting her to tell her how I felt but she just said to me "Its awkward because Ive moved on" and my heart broke into a million little peices. I cant stop thinking if its because shes with somebody else, and if she is then id die inside. Everything reminds me of her and it kills me. Hopefully Ill get over her in time. Meanwhile ive been getting as many numbers as I can to try and help me move on and meet new people to get my mind away from it all.

[I-say]

Thankyou Redbel X

[I-say]

Eurox... Read Redbel's reply . Hope it helps you too x

[bednobs]

i think our egos make this happn ... basically we cant believe that they have got over us so quickly. it feels so much better for us to think of them completely heartbroken and unable to love again ... we have spoiled them for other women. It also is really important who goes out with someone else first, and it has to be us!

Its just a defence mechanism on the part of your ego, so dont worry about it