crete, I have 2 children of my own and have no wish to have anymore. The friend is very close and she is the only one i would ever consider it for, she is also a family member through marriage. I said i would carry, thats all, i couldnt use my own eggs, thats a bit of a minefield for me. I would just be the carrier and happy to do that for her because i feel she deserves it because she is so special. Anyway, its all hypothetical now becasue she is fine and will carry her own. :-)