Although
Rev Sermon's heart is the right place, I would caution you to either check the condition of your husband's life insurance... or better yet take a look at the accident statistics for, what are known here in the U.S. as
ultralight vehicles (their not known as aircraft, since they don't have to meet any of the same requirements, including pilot certification, at least here in the U.S.). These, usually, have no manufacturing requirements for strength and pre-production testing. As a professional pilot for many years, I sympathize with your plight. We see many Europeans and Brits coming to the U.S. to further their aviation careers since the cost
is significantly less for
real airplanes. I might suggest checking into flying clubs at the smaller airports. They're able to keep the costs down somewhat by the shared expenses of the aircraft. Either that, or come on over to the U.S.! Best of luck!
By the way, here's a link to a typical article about the accident rates... happens to be Australian, but it is typical...
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~slamble/Why_us e_CAR.htm