boyfriend lost trust

[Nat13]

my newly ex-boyfriend has lost trust in me because i cheated on him.
it wasn't a proper cheat, by this, i mean a mate of mine kissed me and i pulled away, however my boyfriend was deeply hurt by what happened.
after this, i arranged to go out with the guy that kissed me and my boyfriend got rather mad and he ending up breaking our relationship.
we are both 16 and he was the guy i lost my virginity to and i love him so much.

i want him back, but i want him to be able to trust me again.
please help me and give me ways of gaining his trust.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i dont think your ever gonna get his trust back. If it was just the initial kiss then maybe there would be some hope, but what you did after was a bit out of order. Your better off just forgetting any chance of getting back with him and hoping things will be the same as before. Hopefully you have learnt from this and wont do it again...

[ummmm]

I was waiting for you to answer Mr Ben.....

I am going to have a think about this one

[jno]

I think he overreacted by getting annoyed when someone kissed you against your own intentions. But what made you then go out with him??? Well of course your bf ended the relationship if you were going out with someone else. Who wouldn't? How can you say you really love him yet go out with someone he's already mad at? I think you just need to calm down and sort out in your own mind what you really want. And relax about it. You're 16, you've got decades worth of mistakes to make yet; the main thing is to learn from them, but you can only do this if you think about why you do the things you do.