suggestions?

[4forgetmenot]

ok heres the deal theres this guy who ive liked for ages despite the fact that before i met him i was quiet content and happy being single anyway ive got to know him over the last year or so and i really like him hes amazing and everything id look for in a guy. but theres a problem in getting to know him he opened up to me ad it turns out he has a real relationship problem and doenst want a relationship whatsoever because hes been hurt real bad in the past. ive only ever acted as a friend to him and made that clear to him but i really like him and i did try to get over him and didnt talk to him or see him for a couple of months but i saw him again the other day and its brought it all back. im really tempted to confess my feelings to him not because i want anything to come from me doing so but because it will put my mind at rest and i might be able to get over him once and for all once ive been rejected....any ideas??

[DottyH]

ooo don't be so hegative, put yourself out there and risk it for a biskit.

[oopsydoopsy]

aw, 4get, I think that honesty might be for the best here. although he states that he doesn't want a relationship, he may just be erring on the side of caution and not realise how you feel.

[redcrx]

was sooooo tempted to put something funny in reply but realised that you arent 4GETMENOT but someone with a very very similar name.
An imposter or a genuine coincidence?

Just thought Id better to point it out to all those who may thinks its 4getmenot that its not, Ive even called her to check.

[4forgetmenot]

omg you know i didnt even realise that id done that its in fact meant to be 4getmenot and ive made a major typo...btw thanks for your excellent advice to my question lol

[oopsydoopsy]

ooooh , thanks redcrx. boooo - an imposter :(
I am not an imposter - just had to change my id for personal reasons.

[redcrx]

i may have to change my colour oopsy. perhaps bluecrx

[-Zorro-]

oopsydoopsy...what a funny name...made me laff

[oopsydoopsy]

good oh zorro !

[sair5412]

He might be calling your bluff.

If you have the confidence to do it, then tell him! What have you got to lose? Embarrassment? Big deal! It could develop into something beautiful!

Good luck.

; )

[4getmenot]

hello, yes 4forgetmenot is not me, how spooky. redcrx did ring me asking if I was on there twice and seen as I dont have access to a computer at home I couldnt let anyone know.

[4forgetmenot]

so you reckon i should go for it then?....how though i mean in a letter or face to face or should email him?