why me ???

[skinnymilink]

when in a relationship i get really insecure and paranoid that the man im with will leave me also i get defensive and put my barriers up and this usually drives the man im with away .what can i do to stop this ?

[4getmenot]

You obviously arent happy in yourself to be doing this in the first place. Concentrate on yourself first before you get in a relationship and when you do realise then that you do not need a partner to be whole.

[EBsonicBoom]

Just break the vicious circle!

[Amber1571]

When you find the answer, tell me please, quickly, before I drive my man away.............

[eash]

Tell the guy and be honest with him. If he likes you that much, he will understand and be patient with you. Hopefully you can work through this together.