I beg to differ on the Disney hotels! We've stayed at Port Orleans 3 times, once in the French Quarter (before the kids were born) and twice in Riverside.
With 5 of us, yes it was a bit cramped, but for just 2 of you, the FQ is lovely, reasonably priced and you get all the Disney Transport free of charge, plus you never lose the Disney atmosphere - which can be a good or bad thing depending on your viewpoint!
As a Disney guest, you are free to use any of the other hotel restaurants, again you can use the Disney transport to get to and fro.
Have a look at tripadvisor.com for some good information, but remember it is all subjective!