Sorry to hear that robbo,but he must stay positive, I know of a young girl near me that had a brain tumour and cancer at the same time, she was 15, she is now 18 and, she is fine, naz_nomad has also had cancer, my wife has also had it,and she is also fine, my wife had to have two ops and 6 months chemo, followed by 5 years on tamoxifen, whatever happens robbo never be afraid to talk to him about it, he won't want people treating him as if he isn't here, but some will. I think mainly because they don't know what to say, wish him well, and as whiffey says,the treatments now are excellent, Ray