Relationship query?

[nursecarla]

I have a male friend who is a really nice bloke, regarded as extremely good looking, gentle and very quiet, the problem is that he never seems to notice females when they are expressing an interest in him, now i know he isn't gay and i know that he was hurt very badly in a relationship in the past which makes him very wary and suspicious of any girl he might like.
How can i bring him out of himself to find a nice girl? i know deep down he gets lonely but he just shuts himself off even when women are literally throwing themselves at him, i just want to help him because he always helps others :)))) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[curlyfilm]

sorry no answer, but too, can never tell if someone is attracted to me, i just never see the signs, unless they stood in front of naked, even then i would ask if they were hot, i have seen women who i knew from years ago, and they have asked why i did not, get the message......nevermind

[bobtheduck-]

wasting your time i wouldnt pick my pen up if i dropped it when he was around

[dot.hawkes]

ooo carla you know how good you are with confused and befuddled men, just go with your instincts ;)

[ELVIS68]

Introduce him to Zorro

Second thoughts...don`t

[Katie~77]

Awwww, he sounds lovely. I don't think there is an awful lot you can do. Just give him time and he'll realise that not all women are the same. There are some nice ones around..............................somewhere.xxx

[Skreecheeboy]

Maybe he fancies you but is scared of spoiling a good friendship.... Watch Human Traffic with him and give him the come on....

[-Z-]

He must fancy Carla coz shes a doll

[kaylamay]

Sounds like he doesn't have much self confidence and maybe because of that he doesn't think any girl would take an interest in him so of course he doesn't recognize or notice when it does happen. Maybe you could say if you notice a girl coming on to him, "Oh, i think she likes you" or something to just bring it to his attention. OR??? maybe you could get out of him the kind of girl he would like and set him up with someone compatible(WITH his permission though). Maybe he likes you? Or maybe he just isn't ready?