Ex boyfriend has digital pictures of me

[sarah_louise]

Although he is married I know that after we split up he made a big issue out of the fact he had plenty of pictures to remember me by.
I thought they were fun pictures at the time but really they would not go amiss on a porn site.
Why do I still worry about it or do you think he has deleted them ?

[hammerman]

Do you still see and speak to your ex.....if so, ask if he's still got the pics and you want them back....otherwise his wife will find out about them !!!

[sarah_louise]

Yes I do speak if I see him. They were digital and I am sure he would tell me he has deleted them but I have a feeling he wouldnt

[~Wingnut~]

Hi sarah_louise :o)

Tell him you want to see the pictures actually on his camera then take the memory card. Obviously he could have copied the card or downloaded the pictures already and you would have to take his word that they are the only ones but tell him that if you find out he has kept any pictures or used them on a website then you will not hesitate in telling his wife and the police. Mean business when you tell him so he knows you are serious.

Unfortunatly if any pictures have already appeared on a pornsite I'm not sure what else you could do other than going to the police as they were meant for private use only and he didn't seek your permission.

[sarah_louise]

Thanks for the advice . I didn't say in the question. This was some time ago and before he got married. They were transferred on to his PC..

[~Wingnut~]

Ahhhh well if it was some time ago and nobody has recognised you from any web sites, or if it hasn't been mentioned by his friends or on the grapevine then I am guessing that he has probably disposed of them :o)

Your probably still worrying about it because you don't know what has happened to them, who's seen them, where they've ended up etc.. but I would have thought if he had an ounce of decency he would have binned/deleted them when he met his (now) wife.
Ignorance is definatly bliss in this situation :o)

[stokeace]

mmmmm youn have got a nice p[air of tits havent you?????????????

[stokeace]

lol only joking i havent seen the pics [yet] lol

[sarnieken]

This kind of thing has exploded since phones became capable of taking pictures.

If he has done anything with the pictures then he deserves for his missus to find out what he's like. Any pics taken were done in a position of trust and he shouldn't abuse that, unless you parted on bad terms, which you can't have done if you're still talking.

Just ask him if he still has them, and to delete them if he has. If he starts to get defensive then just threaten to tell his missus. She will want to know why he still has piccies of you on his pc.