should i move on or try to get to the bottom of it?

[s_upergirl]

Met this guy a year ago - went out a few times then he stopped calling - i felt he wasn't interested and moved on after awhile - then out of the blue he txt and said he had lost his fone - but i was going travelling for a few weeks - went off travelling and he emailed the whole time i was gone - came back and we met up and took up where we left off - got on well - even went to a wedding and met all his friends - now i've heard nothing from him in a few weeks?should i again move on or try to get to the bottom of it?

[jno]

there are other ways of getting in touch as well as mobiles and texts, if you really want to. Once may be an accident, twice sounds suspicious. As to why he's doing it, though, I couldn't even begin to guess; but it's possible he's just plain unreliable.

[s_upergirl]

Thanx jno!!

[jno]

well, I haven't exactly offered you much comfort! By all means don't write him off if you enjoy his company, but honestly I wouldn't invest much emotional capital in him at the moment - stay friendly if he returns but don't look on him as long-term bf material unless he comes up with a damn good explanation and apology. And good luck

[Mammar]

How very strange!
I would be curious to know why the silence?
I would have to ring and ask him.
But you may not be as nosey as me.
Blokes!

[Sasha13]

No, no, no Mammar - if he hasn't got in touch, he's not interested, sorry - the lost phone I can almost guarantee is an excuse - he backed off, then decided he fancied a bit again so got back in touch, then changed his mind again. Unfortunately, even if you do contact him, I bet he says 'it's not me, it's you' or 'I'm just not ready for a relationship' - whatever he says is just likely to leave you wanting more answers. Try to move on - sorry if this sounds harsh but it's true. Good luck x

[s_upergirl]

I was curious and did call but got no answer - so decided to let it go - but the curiosity is killing me!!lol and yeah i kinda agree with sash - i feel he's just decided not to continue - infact i think i'm more annoyed with his lack of honesty or respect than the fact i'm not seeing him!! thanx anyway guys xx