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[Trinny]

Men move on so quickly after relationship break up? Is it because they are heartless or just want sex?

[carrot99]

Trinny, you said yourself it was a long distance relationship that you kept alive by texts to him. He has finally admitted to looking elsewhere. You are now free of him so put your energies into finding someone worthwhile closer to home. I know it is difficult to find someone new but there is someone out there far more worthy of your affections. Good luck.

[Pippa68]

Bit of a generalisation there..

I reckon it all depends on whose decision it was to break up ~ after all it will be them who move on the quickest..they have had the time to get over it in the first place!

[-Zorro-]

coz we are emotionally closed off

[legend758duo]

it depends on the reason for the breakup.things arent always black and white you know

[legend759]

i think it depends on the situation.
if the male or female has stopped caring/loving their partner then i think they may have been looking before the split.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, basically, most men arent as emotional as women. If you ever notice in life. Guys just have sex, but always go back to their partner, whilst women always tend to have affairs and get more emotionally attached.
Its not because guys are heartless, its just that men and women are different.
I think also it depends on why you split up. If you got dumped and he has moved on already, it must be that you werent satisfying him. It all depends on the circumstances...

[legend759]

well you could turn it on its head.
the men only get sex from other women(unless they are gay) so does it mean men are heartless or women are too easy?
why do men get the blame?
the woman lets him.
but its his fault?
if women werent as easy then maybe the guy wouldnt5 have gone at all?

[mcauley]

trinny, it seems to me that you are not ready to let him go just yet, and because he has moved on, you feel he is heartless. from experiance i feel that women can cope with these things alot better than men, and sometimes a man might seek comfort in another women to help ease the pain he is going through, or he just wants sex.

[Reverandfunk]

Let me think, you fall out with your partner because she's taken the p*** big time. As much as I'm hurting inside what shall I do: Stop in every night and cry on my pillow or go out and try and get on with my life as I know there's no going back? Anyway, what's a reasonable time after you break up? A week? A Month? Three months?

[Champagne]

Yes, I'm afraid it's because they are heartless.

They are also thick, shallow, dirty, thuggish, immature, primitive and moronic.

Unfortunately though, we're suckers for hugs.... Dammit!