Am i being used??

[starry eyes]

Sorry, this is a really long story: Iv known this guy for about a year now, we used to have a snog in the clubs and i slept with him a couple times, but outside of the clubs, there was nothing going on with us. I bumped into him on NYE and he told me how he felt about me. He said that he really likes me and he wants us to be a proper couple. and that he is always thinking about me, that he would call me with in the next few days and we'd go out. (i slept with him that night too) I didnt hear from him for about 3 weeks, then he called me, apparently he lost my phone number and had only just found it again, He said he'd call me the next day. Then the next day he txt me and said he coulnt meet that day as he'd already made plans but would call me in the week. Then the next weekend he was txt me telling me he was thinking about me. After that i didnt hear from him, until Friday night, when he txt me and said that he hadn't been in touch cos he got himself a girlf but that he dumped her and i am always on his mind. Then i bumped into him in a club that night and i didnt really wanna speak to him. He spent the whole night trying to get me to talk to him and telling me and my mates how much he liked me, i finally gave in and he came back to my place. the next day he was all over me, like we were a couple. then i dropped him off in town to meet his mates at the pub! Sunday morning, he turned up at my house at 6am. saying he'd lost his house keys and had no where to go. (even tho he lives with his parents and they were home) so he stayed with me. again, when i dropped him home yesterday he was being lovely. then he txt me last night saying he's going to visit a mate away for a few days and would call me when he gets back. my friend thinks he is just using me. What do you think. I know he does like me, but at the same time, is he using me?? I REALLY like him.

[havinmysay]

how old is he?
if he really likes u why did he start seein someone else?
maybe he does like u but enjoying life at the same time.men are funny things,just try not to sleep with him everytime,you'll soon find out that way x

[CheekyChops]

Yes he is using you. Face it, he is only really nice to you when he wants sex and he knows it works 'cos you sleep with him.

If you are happy with no string sex, then that is fine but I don't think you will ever have a meaningful relationship with this bloke.

[laurence2]

You need to wake up {mind wise} and smell the coffee, hes playing you bigtime, he knows your drop everything for him {excuse the pun}.

Your friend is spot on, i can see him in the pub with his mates saying i got my legover again last night, read your own post again, this time very slowly, its smacking you in the face, you ''REALLY'' like him, and he knows it, if you want to be used carry on, but i suggest you move on without him because only one person will get hurt in this and it ain't him, so have a guess who that leave's?

Your post is really saying that you know your being used, you just want comfirmation

[Mammar]

Starry, sweetie, wake up.
He's walking all over you.
Like a doormat.
Get the Hoover out and get rid.
While you're pandering to this prat you're missing out on the nice blokes.

[starry eyes]

Thanks guys, thing is i thought he was a nice bloke. IF he does gets in touch with me again, im gonna have words with him and tell him that i know he is playing me and im not gonna let him do it no more.

[Reverandfunk]

Yes, ditch him!!

[curlyperm]

starry eyes, i wouldnt even bother 'having words' next time you see him? You'll only be ginving him the opportunity to 'wheedle ' his way out of it, just make like your not bothered? and if he offers any explanation, i'd just wave him away with my hand and say (with a smile on my face) 'Look, it was nothing, fun while it lasted - but, ive moved on.......see ya' and then get on with your life, he sounds a right co**y little tw*t, better off without him!
xx