Is she a lesbian?

[good-arras]

When my ex fiancee and I split up late last year she moved in with a lesbian couple; they have since split up and she now quite openly shares a bed with the remaining one (there is a spare bed!). They also seem to be inseperable as they are always out together and sort of come across as a couple although there is no 'touching' etc

She has always been very close to her female friends and denies that there is anything going on to the point where she now seems to be getting bored of people asking and on the surface at least, seems to think of it as perfectly innocent.

Is this normal behaviour between 2 female friends or is she denying something; if not to everyone else then at least to herself?! Any thoughts, ladies in particular?

[Katie~77]

I shared a flat with my best mate, and occasionally we shared the same bed. No funny business went on though, I can assure you!x

[coco pops]

Why are you asking this question? She has moved on in her life Does it really matter if she is a lesbian or not . I Know 2 females who live together have seperate bedrooms but when they go off in their caravan they share the same double bed. They don't see anything wrong with that and they are NOT lesbians.

[good-arras]

No, Coco pops, it doesn't really matter that much, I'd like her to be happy whatever that entails as I still care about her but surely it's only natural to wonder in the circumstances?

Btw the bed sharing is every night, not just when necessary

[bednobs]

i dont know why people have to label them selves or others. perhaps at the moment she is in a lesbian relationship, but imo that does not label her a lesbian. At the end of things, only she knows what is going on between her friend and her, so i dont think randomers off an internet forum are going to be able to help define whether she is a lesbian or not

[good-arras]

I know that nobody on here is going to know the answer for sure but I just wanted to know what other people would make of the situation. Not even her close friends know for sure but have made assumptions

[bednobs]

lol and now another whole group of people are going to be making assumptions about the poor girl!

[good-arras]

The 'other group of people' don't know who she is though so the assumptions won't matter so much...;0)

[bednobs]

very true

[stokeace]

did her vibrator go missing?lol

[Mammar]

Does it matter?

[dontask]

maybe you put her off men for life now :)

[good-arras]

Ha ha I suspect you're right!

[shazzzz]

well i would say yes,but men dont take it to well when a girlfriend chucks them for a women ,it happend to a friend of mine not so long ago , she proberly didnt want to hurt you any more

[good-arras]

Well in a way I would sort of prefer that as I don't particularly want to see her with another man!