does love exist can love still exist in the world we live in today

[ultraman]

i wonder if love can still be found it seems that people who have nothing in common can find something in common that they like to do and be happy together and sometimes it works out maybe some people were not meant to find anybody it seems like nobody wants to go out and have a good time anymore i guess my probelm is i do not want to be the one to make the first move because it makes me feel like i'am being a jerk and i do not people to think that of me.

[alijangra]

Stop obsessing over it and it will happen, you cant plan or rush these things or you will just end up looking desperate. How old are you? Are you running out of time/ working to a deadline?

[Trinny]

I think if you try to hard to find someone, then it doesnt happen. So I dont bother lol.

Just relax, and when you are out, and you see someone who you think is nice. Just say hi. If they dont reply back, then it doesnt make you a jerk ultraman.

Good luck

[Mammar]

Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr?
Gosh - you sound like a girl. I didn't think men were so dejected about stuff like this.
Have some chocolate, chuck, and cheer up.
There's plenty of ladies out there searching for a sensitive soul.
We thought they'd all died out with the dinosaurs.

[MiniN]

its totally true that someone specially will come along when you stop looking for it and least expect it.

[WendyS]

I wonder if part of your problem lies in your own words "nobody wants to go out and have a good time any more". I'm not sure what that has to do with love which is an ongoing deep friendshop and contentment, usually with somebody with whom you have a lot in common, or with whom you are compatible. Going out and "having fun" is OK for young people with no financial or family commitments but once a new relationship starts to mature people usually tend to settle of the routine contentment of making a home together. You're not being a "jerk" simply because you make the first move. Somebody has to, but possibly all the girls you would like to have dated have wanted to move on emotionally rather than spending their leisure hours in pubs or clubs, if that is where you have been looking to find somebody.