if your friend was a b!tch/barsteward

[legend760]

if your friend was either of the above to other people.
would you still think the same of them?
or would you try to get them to be a nicer person?
or are you the type of person who would just blindly agree with what they say and do ,because theyre your friend?

[nursecarla]

If they were a bitch to other people then chances are they would be saying all sorts about me behind my back so i wouldn't really have anything to do with people of that ilk :))) xxxxxxx

[Katie~77]

Dito what Carla said. I wouldn't hold what they did for a living against them though! Bar stewards work hard for a living!x

[Pippa68]

Carla has said exactly what I was going to say.

I have never had any mates who are Bs.

[bobtheduck-]

and they have payslips

[zappeddot]

I do agree with carla and katie but i don't tend to judge my friends actions, most of them have had to put up with various levels of hardship and turmoil throughout their lives.

[Goodsoulette]

I know of maybe 2 people who never bitch about anyone. I don't feel the need to stand up for whoever they are slagging off if its not needed but I will say stuff like I have never found that myself and try not to put myself in a position where I could ever be accused of being a bitch. Most people are out for an easy life and don't want to rock the boat on all fronts and do enough not to upset anyone.

[Athley]

Depends who they are bitching to - treat people as they treat you - some people deserve it and some don't simple as that!!

[Tha-Flash]

Its pretty much impossible to get ur friends to change themselves (be nicer).

Dont be afraid to disagree with what they're saying though. Unless you really do agree. Don't just agree to keep them happy.

[legend760]

now.
turn it on its head.

your friend / friends are bitchin bout you.
do you break off contact, fallout with them?
or do you face up to them and try and sort things?
could you trust them again?