I need help

[carmelbaby]

Hi im carmelbaby,

I have a boyfriend and we been together going on 2 months but it seems like 4eva. I just love to flirt, and play but i really like my boyfriend n i need to stop flirting with other guys.. Can anyone plz help me wit my problem???

[ultraman]

i work with a girl who flirts with customers and with other employees but she is a mother of four and she loves her husband just because she flirts with people does not mean she is cheating on her husband that is just the way she is it does not mean anything bad i get flirted with at work sometimes some girl may smile at me or the person that i just mentioned flirts with me sometimes. it all depends on the way that person takes some people can take it the wrong way or some people flirt back it is human nature to do these things.

[carmelbaby]

I do understand but my boyfriend thinks it is bad for me to flirt with other guys... I cant help i just do all the time even when he is with me or something.. But i just dont understand why he can flirt with other girls and i cant with other guys.. Thats my main problem. u have great advice for me. Thanks for telling me this...

[welshfox]

If you really love him you'll stop sending signals to other guys, the same as he'd stop doing it to girls if he truely loves you. Theres a boundary between being friendly and flirting with everyone. If you ''love to flirt'' as you put it, maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship. If 2 months seems like forever, I can't see there being any future for you, or not a faithful one anyway - Sorry to say but you dont sound too committed to him. Ask yourself this, if you met a guy in a club on the weekend, and thought you're boyfriend wouldnt find out, would you go home with him, or even just kiss him? If the answers yes, I think you need to be single and have the fun you want rather than risk hurting your bf. Be very careful as things like this can get you into trouble as you get older - you dont want to tread on the wrong persons toes by flirting with someones husband etc