I hate men!!!!!!!

[chic21998]

Things were going so well with a guy I liked, I said how I felt and that I wanted things like a good night text, he said he wanted it casual & something that wasnt exclusive.

That was pretty much it although no one actually said it. 3 days later in the pub he drunkenly said he wanted it to be exclusive & wanted everyone to know, like a proper couple, he evn txt me goodnight the next night.

Since he's said to have no recollection as to what happened in the pub or what was said, no texting or ringing.

To make it all worse we wrk together. Ive had to practically cut my fingers off to not ring or txt him,

what shal I do? Is there anything I can do?

[johnlambert]

Accept that we are a bunch of jerks who make the rules up as we go along, sometimes we tell you the rules, but most times we dont

[Slooow_Jo]

How come he sent you a good night text the night after if he didn't remember the night in the pub?

[chic21998]

I know thats what I mean?! I know he remembers but I refuse to cling on to that.
I want him to repeat it word by word when he's sober.

Im soooo confused, I really dont know what he's playing at but I know that Im now also playing it and I hate it!

[missyR]

He's obviously a tw@t - i know thats insensitive but sometimes life is short and you need to find somebody who might treat you a bit better!

[unruliejulie]

He does sound a bit of an idiot chic and if hes too drunk to remember what he said to you then shame on him! Sounds to me like he isnt sure what he wants but in the meantime you just hang around waiting for him to decide! In my honest opinion, any bloke who says he doest want it to be exclusive just wants to have his cake and eat it!

Good luck and i agree with missyR, go and find someone who cares about you a bit more then him and also, good on you for not phoning or texting!

[country_boy]

Don't phone or text him, sounds like a tw@t to me and doesn't know what he wants. Soon as you're not there for him he'll be after you! Set the rules if you want to carry on seeing him, if he doesn't like what you have to say, walk away. Good luck.

[country_boy]

Also I bet he wants to be casual while you're exclusive, if he asks you out make out you've had another offer as you're not exclusive, he'll soon change his tune if he really wants you.

[Goodsoulette]

country boy has got it right..... men are idiots (although country boy may actually be exempt from that general rule)