please help!!

[YellowMe]

My fiancee and I were having sex and just as he came he got a terrible head ache. He collapsed on top of me holding his head and he looked like he was going to cry. He said it felt like a vein had burst in his head and it hurt from behind his eye, going back to behind his ear. Anyway he took 2 paracetamol and although he said it had eased a little about 15, 20 mins later I'm still really concerned. He says he'll be fine and went off to work even though he's clearly in a lot of pain. Could it be serious?? Has anyone else had this??

[Pippa68]

Apparently quite common:

http://www.relieve-migraine-headache.com/orgas m-headache.html

It has happened to me a couple of times in my life..and I am a woman :o)

[YellowMe]

Thank you so much. I was really worried! xx

[jno]

well, you might still need to worry; if he's still got it on Monday it would be worth seeing a doctor.

[spudmuffa]

Interesting question. I was married for forty years and my wife used that excuse every night. Hope this helps.

[scotchollie]

Spudmuffa - she never used that excuse with me...

[ummmm]

pmsl.....

[redhead23]

dont have relations with him

[oldfashioned]

yhttstaf

[RATTER15]

That used to happen to me!!! I went to the Dr and he said nothing to worry about, it is very common apparently.

[oldfashioned]

I often go to sleep on the job so instead of coming I went.

[oldfashioned]

Chap takes his wife on cruise. She is very seasick and tells him, if you get me something to stop me feeling sick you can have sex every day of the cruise.He goes to ships chemist and asks for some anti-seasickness pills and some condoms. Chemist replies "if it makes you sick why do you do it".

[peppy]

He should go and get his BP checked immediately. A lady I know bent over to stroke a dog and felt a pain in her head behind her eye. Turned out a vessel had burst because her BP was 218 / 145. This was only last weekend and she went to the hospital immediately and they kept her in til medication had brought it down to acceptable.

Don't want to worry you but they said she was lucky. May be nothing with your bf but tell him to get checked out.
Hope it turns out ok x x

[oldfashioned]

Is there a connection between bending over to stroke a dog and having it off, bit confused.

[partyanimal]

The old ones are the best....

[whiffey]

Well YellowMe, I hope it all worked out well for you and that as a side-benefit you have learned a bit about Answerbank. Upon asking a reasonable question you will get one or two sensible answers, but once the baboons get back from foraging in the trees it's all downhill, as we have seen today. Don't be discouraged from posting further however, some of us are sensible.

[oldfashioned]

sorry didn't realise side effects of boyfriends ejaculation was a sensible topic.how silly of me.

[myword]

Even though he may appear to be fine...please have him go to dr. This could be warning of stroke.

[scotchollie]

Myword is correct.

In my experience strokes and ejaculation are medically linked...

Hope this helps.

[YellowMe]

Thanks. He was stubborn and refused to see a doctor as it went after a few hours but then it happend again this morning and he said he will get it checked out this time.