wierd set up,,,, or not???

[kitten_uk2]

am i a prude or is this normal?
my male friend met a girl off internet, she had recently had a baby and was married to a man much older than herself(she was 20, he was 60+) anyway they got together and she had another baby with my friend(she already had 3 young uns) she is still living with hubby, there baby was very poorly and spent alot of time in children hospitals. now my friend tells me there expecting another in aug. (that makes 5), even tho she is still living with husband. i just dont understand why a girl so young would want to have so many kids, and even more so after all the trouble with her last one, whos not even 2 yet plus shes still living with her old hubby.
whats your views?,,, i personally dont think its the right enviroment to be thinking about having another baby when there not living together, should he know better?

[pixiepie]

i agree this situation is very weird !!!!!
Does this older bloke know the 2 kids arent his. Its like something you read in take a break !
Love does stupid things to peoples hearts and minds. Could be quite confusing to the kids as they get older

[Bohne]

I would not call this normal, either!

My first question though would not be why does she do it, but why does he (your friend) do it?

Why does he want children with somebody still married and living with her husband.
The husband probably thinks all the children are his!

We cannot ask the girl, but you could ask your friend why he's accepting this situation!