What should i do?

[NatalieF]

Ive been with my fella for nearlly 10months and i love him to pieces but i just dont seem to trust him.

In november i went away for the weekend with some friends and left him at home. Before i left we had alittle argument over summit stupid but i thought we were cool.

On the saturday night i tried ringin him but he wouldnt answer any of my calls, so i just left it. But when i got back it was the same!! Then he finally informed me that while i was away he had got off with his gaffers niece, it was even worse as me and his gaffer dont get on!! I cried my heart out soo much it went numb i didnt know what to do!! so i went out on the town with a friend and partied my troubles away.

I started seein someone else and he started seeing that girl, but the night he slept with her he rang me telling me he missed me. I was also gutted at the fact that he could sleep with someone else straight after me as i wanted to get over him before i slept with some one else. Wee met up and went for a drive and i told him i want to get back with him!!! Stupid i know!! But we got back together and things were happy from then on.

But every time we go out he looks at other girls and it makes me so paranoid. Ive slapped him before when he's done it and he was shocked.

He claims that he loves me and that he would never cheat on me again but i got so many things goin on in my head i just dont know what to do!!! anyone got any answers xxx

[Katie~77]

I have an answer. Get rid of him!!!!! Why would you want to waste your time with someone who makes you miserable, when there is someone out there who could make you happy??? Don't waste any more of your life on him. Good luck.x

[NatalieF]

Yea but i love him and find it hard to let him go!!! He spoils me when he wants and its nice to feel wanted. Ive never bin in love before and this is real but i do know i have to get rid!!

[ummmm]

Your options I think....Get over it and move on either in the relationship or not. Or leave. Make the decision.

[wigglebum]

As the others said get rid of him

He may spoil you and make you feel wanted but there's a reason behind it. In a way he's hiding behind the gifts a the bull. I know it's tough but you will get over him in time and be with someone who truely deserves your love and trust.

xx

[skyep]

NatalieF - Can I ask how old you are & how old your boyfriend is?

[NatalieF]

Im 19 and he's 27 x

[ummmm]

I didn't say get rid.

I said...get over it.

If you can't get over it then leave.

[dilf]

its just an idea but why not spice things up in the bedroom and see if you can get round him that way . try performing an act of horatio on his manhood then try a little backdoor fun maybe . its just an idea like but im sure he wouldnt think of another girl if you were to treat him in such a way.

and stop going on and on and on

[dilf]

sorry that should say-

in such a way 3 times a week

[dilf]

helllllllo ummmm. the lovelly lolita is looking good, fancy a dance

[ummmm]

Hello dilfy......hows you sweetie? xxx

[4getmenot]

get rid, yes men can change and he might never cheat again, But you will never trust him whatever. I got back with a twonk and it was never right now I'm with someone I can trust. And as for slapping him. I hate that, girls thinks its ok to hit a bloke because they cant hit back, well I wish some blokes would if girls hit them they deserve it. You wouldnt like it if he slapped you. Best thing is to go your seperate ways.