I need help ive met what i would say as a kind loving girl She is lovely but come's across hard. should i stay or go. I must say she is my dream girl .
Tell you what, Mrknowbu99erall, come and live with me for a month... I guarantee after that you'll consider her to be the soppiest, most sensitive bunny wabbit in the history of tender women.
Or, of course, you could throw the towel in on your 'dream girl' because you're gutless. It's up to you.
If she is kind and loving and your dream girl, then why would you even consider going? She may come across as 'hard' but walking away is never going to change her.. only make her feel worse and more closed off. Stay and perhaps she will soften up.
Think you have answered your own question here Mr Knowall, you obviously like this girl, why do you say she appears 'hard' not quite sure what you mean by that, as in she has a tough exterior? If so perhaps she has been hurt many times in the past ? TALK to her and see how things go, time will tell if you follow your gut feelings....enjoy being with her....life is too short....
RQ xx