fair enough mrbb, though writing all in caps is considered shouting online, just so as you know.
(it is a pain trying to emphasise certain things since they took away the formatting options)
I was not 'pooh-poohing' your idea, as such, just saying i didn't think the ed would go for it because it doesn't fit with the rest of the site, and i don't think its necessary to separate people that way.
i mean, i am not disabled, but i know people who are and i know of places that have various facilities etc, but i would likely rarely go into the topic, so by separating people, you would actually be cutting yourself off from potential information, that people may be able to impart in passing.
if she does put one in - great - its no odds to me whether its there or not, so don't think i was just being against it.