Turning negative to positive

Trinny | 11:02 Thu 17th May 2007 | Body & Soul

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Feeling very negative at the moment, got made redundant last week, my long term relationship (finally) ended not long ago, and today, my car cost me another load of money. I know I have a lot to be grateful for. But still doesnt stop me from feeling so negative, really trying hard to turn it around, but its becoming a bit overwhelming. So this is a question, and not just me whinging, (sorry) but who else has ever felt like everything is going wrong, and did you manage to turn it around?

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My friend had me in kinks the last time I was down. Talking in her kitchen, she was making tea and farting about with a french stick and chocolate spread. She had cut herself a sandwich baguette and put a teeny bit of choc. in the middle, then she cut me a garlic bread oval and dumped half the pot on it! I looked at her - as you would - like she had lost the plot. She said you know life is a sh* t sandwich ... then she bit into hers and said only sometimes there is more bread then others.
Tackle one issue at a time rather than being swamped by everything! Gives you a focus and you feel you are at least doing something.

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Trinny

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Sense4all, what a great friend you have....and how right she is. Yes I need to tackle one thing at a time, as I am feeling totally overtaken by everything now. You know when you lay in bed in the morning, and everything rushes in your head at once. I often wish I had a little hoover to suck all those thoughts away. Thankyou for replying xx

Trinny

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Thank you ClarionSt.....Yes, its been a strange week. I have been made redundant once before, but that was years ago. It does dent your confidence, but I knew it was me, as last in, first out.

I have had some fabulous advice from everyone on here today.

My rant is over. Now ready for a new positive future.

Thanks everyone. Meant a lot xx

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Trinny

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oh, go on legend, I could do with a laugh :)

Clarion, last in, first out, was the case where I worked, as all the others had worked there 10 years plus, and were like part of the fixtures. Really..........

I will definately let you know when I get my new job. As for getting a new partner. I dont think I will. So have given up on that one.

First round will be on me ;) xx

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