Care of younger sister

[Kinky-wee-aj]

I was wondering what the legal age to look after a younger sister is. As My sister is in Care just now because our mother has some issues but i was just wondering wot the legal age to look after a younger sister is, i will do what ever i have to. I am 13 just now and my sister is 2 and a half. Obviously i would have to wait as i am possibly still too young.

[Kinky-wee-aj]

some won plz help!!

[missyR]

You are only thirteen- the legal age limit is 18. Can't any other family members help you? Maybe your dad or gran or someone.

[Kinky-wee-aj]

no, my dad is dead, and my gran and papa are too old to take her in coz i already live wiff them.

[tiny e.a]

I'm sorry you're away from your siter, it must be really difficult for you and you sound like a really lovely, caring girl. I'm afraid I can't offer any advice because you are only 13 and you would need to be 18 but I wish you all the luck in the world regarding your mum, perhaps she will be able to sort out her issues and take your sister back. Talk to someone, your nan, a social worker if you have one, or even a teacher who might be able to advise you, about the possibilites of you seeing your sister frequently. If you are feeling alone and confused by this situation perhaps you could try childline. They'd really like to hear from you if you are unhappy and would beable to offer more helpful advice. X

[MustangLady]

hi kinky-wee-aj.
I too wish you all the luck in the world, i wish there were a few more loving and responsible 13 yr olds out there like you sound to be. You're sister is very lucky to have someone like you. I do hope your mum sorts out her issues soon and you all get back together as a family. When you do, give your mum all the support you can but don't lose out on your childhood - you have fun too! Try to speak with a social worker to get regular visits to see your sister and keep telling her you love her and miss her, she'll need your support too. Good Luck darling x x MustangLady x x

[Ams6784]

hi there i think your still classed as a minor yourself at the min you may think that looking after your little sis is easy but its not there is alot involved init, i think that you wanting to look after your little sis is really lovely but your still young yourself you need to have your childhood just like your little sister does and leave all the worrying to someone else. i wish you all the luck in the world with getting things sorted out ok Amy x

[Goodsoulette]

Oh, Kinky Wee my heart really was breaking for you when I read this question. First of all I would like to say that you sound very mature and caring for a 13 year old and I am certain when your mum has sorted through her issues she will be so proud of you. I agree that talking to teachers and your sister's social worker about getting regular access to see your sister. I would imagine any foster family would accomodate those needs.