Curvy or skinny??

[funshine]

Just wondering what all you red blooded males out there prefer??

I'm on the skinny side and am always being told that men prefer women with "a little meat on their bones"...so should I start eating the pies now??!!

What about women,what do you think looks best?Size 0 or Size 14??

[Goodsoulette]

I know, I referred to him as that in a myspace blog and he saw it, He went mental, I then set profile to private.

[feist]

I think I look good the size I am, I'm not skinny but slim, btw size 10 and 12 depending on the shop .... I'd never go up to a size 14!!!! I'd rather die coz I can't stand looking fat, I prefer looking healthy and agree with goody, clothes look better when you're in shape.

[Panic Button]

The size zero catwalk models are for other women to look at. Real men don't bat an eyelid at them, they prefer real women who are more naturally shaped.

[4getmenot]

And what bout the bigger size models. Clothes look better on skinny people, dont think so. Big or small anyone can wear the right clothes well.

[mccfluff]

i think clothes look good on bigger girls as long as you where stukff that flatters and suits your figure, i'm a big girl and i get complements all the time on how i look and my dress sense

[Pippa68]

Is size 14 fat?

I am a size 14 on the bottom and 16 on top (big gazongas, you see). To some I am fat..to Mr P I am curvy.

If blokes love meat on the bones so much why is Kylie Minogue so popular? Mr Pippa reckons she is too skinny, but she always seems to be in the top ten of sexiest females!

[nannon]

Feist - i hardly think a size 14 is fat thank you very much!!

As long as people are healthy...i have a friend who is very tall - size 14/16 totally toned and is a fitness instructor - she is in no way fat!!!

[joro]

i think as long as you feel comfortable with yourself then who cares what men think!!
i am a size 12 and im absolutley desperate to be a size 10 dont listen to all those men yeah curves are nice as in big boobs and nice bum but wait till you get those big thighs and love handles to match its not very attractive at all!

i have got a bit of a belly but i hate the tops of my arms and tops of my legs the most perhaps you could give me advice on how to be skinny?????

[Silversky]

Joro is exactly right....I don't think it really matters what size a girl is, it's more important that they are happy with the size they are...
I'm a size 8/10 and seriously, I am so unconfident with my body, I can stand being on top of my partner, because I feel I look fat.

[joro]

im sure i would be happier if i could just loose a couple of inches off my bum and legs and be a size 10. but it just goes to show no one is ever really happy with what they look like.
i dont think men have anything to do with it i think its other women and jelousy. im going on holiday in august and one of my friends is like a size 8 and im a 12 i will feel awfull stood next to her in a bikini if i cant shift a few . my boyfriend is gorge and lots of people find him very attractive but just because he is with me doesnt mean i feel great about my self half the time i just feel sorry for him having to cuddle up to me at night

[pastafreak]

But at the end of the day he IS cuddling up to you Joro,so he must be happy with the way you are. Stop comparing yourself with your mates-even if you are the same height and bone structure(bet your not) your shape would be different. Does anyone watch "How to Look Good Naked"? Women ALWAYS seem to see themselves as bigger than they actually are....love that show cos Gok Wan always helps them to see that there is SO much variety in shape and size...and we are ALL gorgeous!!!

[Scylax]

Size 0 ? That would be as much fun as climbing
into bed with a bicycle.

[sophie_1003]

size 14 definitely looks better than size 0 on the whole, if you're naturally a size 0 then it can look nice and willowy though! If you're comfortable with the way you look then that's the important thing! I have a bit of an odd shape, size 14 boobs, size 10 (ish) waist and size 12/14 bum and hips, can usually get away with size 10 tops (stretchy ones neway!) and size 12 skirts/trousers, buyin bikinis is a nightmare though!

[alijangra]

I dont believe it has anything to do with being a 10, 12, 14 whatever. A size 16 woman can be more attractive than a size 10 if the proportions and shape are right. Size 16 doesnt necessarily mean flabby, it has a lot to do with bone structure and they way the body deposits fat.

Im a size bigger on my bottom half than my top half. Thats just my shape and nothing will change that. Believe me, I have tried. There aint much fat on my body except for my breasts, hips and bum. I have been working out for years though so dont have any cellulite but there is no denying the fact I have a huge butt!

[-Zorro-]

can i have curvy please....36DD

[feist]

Sorry, just wanted to clear this up... Size 14 to Me is quite fat, given my build and bone structure. But obviously, not all women out there are the same different shapes and sizes etc

I am curvy at the moment and like it tht way, I personally would never gain so much weight because on me it would just be too much and no doubt unhealthy. If men on AB prefer size 14, so be it, but I've seen men in real life who pay more attention to slim or well toned girls so I dunno what that says about them....