let someone down ?

[legend760]

have you ever?
did you mean it or was it a mistake,error of judgement.
its not wrong to make mistakes but better to make up afterwards.
whats your opinion ?

[markja]

i have a personal policy ( that sounds bleedin' formal ) that if someone does something to me by accident then i will forgive them for it. anyone can make a mistake.
but... if someone is deliberately nasty, harmfull, etc. then they are not worth my time or effort.
if they appologise and really mean it i will consider making up but it would take a while to regain my trust and full friendship again.

[ummmm]

Depends how you mean.....

I let my mates down last week when they were suppose to be coming for dinner. I told them my reasons and they were cool about it. I then went round their's last night and cooked for them so we had dinner...just a week late.

[legend760]

well i was meaning on a more serious level .not bleeding pasta anda bottle of wine!!!


im sure at various stages of my life ive let women down ,never intentionally, but looking back i think it may all have been for a bigger reason.
means to an end .
just stops along a journey to my final destination.

[ummmm]

Well the answer is no then...

[stewey]

Legend, whats wrong with letting women for your big 'reason': they might be inclined to agree with you?

[stewey]

Ouch! I left out the word 'down' after 'women'!.........That spoils it, I suppose.

[legend760]

wtf stewey start again and make it coherent ok??

[stewey]

wtf does wtf mean? Also having a difficult time with 'coherent', Ok I'm Ok with. Lol (whoever that is).

[legend760]

i did let someone down a while ago now.
she miscarried and i was too busy being upset myself to help her or even be there as support.
i do regret it but cant do anything about it now.
life goes on and you live and learn.
but t dont mean its easy or fun.

: - (

[stewey]

Legend, I hate to sound like an old folk, but as time goes by these 'problems' will pale away into insignificance: the mists of passing years are memory's cataracts!

[legend760]

like i dont know it mate?
to share is to get over.
problem shared is halfed and all that tosh lol.
im cool just a moment of reflection.
cant help it im human m8.

[stewey]

Goodnight, legend. Talk to you again.

[legend760]

no probs .
tomorrows another day.

sweet dreams stewey good shoes


lmao lol

[nutgoneflake]

Legend, if you showed this lady what you posted earlier, it wouldn't be too late I'm sure. A miscarriage can stay with all concerned for a very long time, don't consider it to be in the past. Speaking from experience, and on a rather serious note sorry, but even years later the event could be fresh in her mind. You may be surprised how much of a difference it makes to both of you.

xxxx (every one of them is from the heart)

[legend760]

thanks nut.
water under the bridge.
more of a reflection and taking things into account.
i have moved on from this i just hope i have learned thats all.
its a new dawn its a new day, same life different mistakes to make.

: - )