getting over ex's!!

[nadcookie]

As some of you may or may not know me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now! And i still cant seem to get over him! Could have something to do with the fact hes just soo confusing I mean one mintue hes saying he loves me and regrets it yet never mentions a word about getting back together its like he just wants me to know it and the next hes telling me he dosnt know if he loves me and stops telling me he misses me and that he dosnt regret it breaking up with me!I need a few more tips on getting over him! and also why do yis think hes messing with my head so much?xx

[4getmenot]

get rid of his number and dont contact him. Only way. he knows he is messing with your head, its what some people do just to keep you hanging on. Get on with life without him.

[Chickens2000]

It's really hard to get over a relationship. Especially if you still have contact with that person and hope of getting back together. You have to find other things to focus on and you'll soon find your feelings fade to the point you'll no longer care whether he wants to get back together or not. I only see one of my exes now and thats only on rare occasions.

[Kaylz1988]

Your situation is so similar to mine, its scary! Basically I just think you should leave well alone. Dont contact him, dont text him nething. Keep yourself busy. Go out with mates and so on... sooner or later your going to meet someone else, and wont even think bout ur ex. I aint been with my x for 3weeks almost. And i still find it hard sometimes. But I have gud days 2. Just think about the negative things. Dont worry you can do it. Just dont let him think he can snap his fingers and ull *** running back! xxx

[4getmenot]

how you getting on with that kaylz? Have you heard from him?

[nadcookie]

Thanks for al the comments so far!! And Kaylz its only 3 weeks gone your bound to feel it! Its great you have your good days because at the start i couldnt hold it toegether at all. Now though i do have my good days and they go well and as for texting and contacting him I rarely ever do that! Itsa when were online and stuff like that we have huge rows and then the next day he talks to me im left completly amazed!..lol...I just cant seem to get him right so iv kinve decided to just get rid of him out of my life but thats soo much easier said then done yeno! Any tips besides friends on how i could keep busy??..xx

[Kaylz1988]

4getme: Yeah its going ok thanks. Like I said I have my gud and bad days. More times going on the better im feeling. Went out sat night. Met someone :-D. Hes a Dj though! So im abit weary he may be a complete dog lol

Cookie: Well since we broke up i've been meeting up with alot of my mates, goin out clubbing/dinner or just simply go round for a chat... Other things i've been doing is reading alot of books. If you go on amazon theres alot of self help books about dealing with break ups. I've ordered about 4! Lol! I've had a massive clear out in my bedroom, out with the old and in with the new as they say! I still think about him ALOT and we talk once a week probably, but I never ever call him. Now Im concentrating on me... for the past three years id always put him first... id never make that mistake again in a relationship. If someone isn't prepared 2give and take its so not worth it. I jus wish i saw this from the beginning. Would of been alot less painful! xxxx

[4getmenot]

Take up a sport like swimming or joina gym. Will make you feel a whole lot better and maybe give you some of the confidence that this bloke has taken away. Xx and kayl good to here you�re getting out. Yes Dj�s can be seen like that but revfunk on here is a dj and as far as I can tell from e-mailing him he loves his gal very much :-) So just get to know him first and see. xx