need your advice

[marci73]

Hi everyone, im in a new relationship which has been going well. The problem is my new bf is still in contact with his ex's parents. I have nothing to do with my ex or his family so i find it weird. Im just confused on why he is in contact with them and would like someone elses point of view

[dot.hawkes]

Maybe he is a nice guy and has a grown up point of view,

[raysparx1]

Hi marci, i would not read to much into it, he isn't hiding the fact he is contact with them is he, it is probably that he gets on really well with them, it's not there fault him and there daughter split up is it.it would be different story if he was hiding the fact he is in touch with them but he is being very honest

[society]

That could be true Uncle Ray, but it could also be because he's a nice guy and the exs' parents are staying in contact with him hoping to get their daughter and him back together.

[raysparx1]

Good point society, it could be that, and if that happens it happens,

[jno]

people aren't their parents; it's possible to stay on friendly terms with one when you've split from the other. I think you're probably lucky to have a guy who doesn't carry grudges; it makes for a calmer life.

[helliebobs]

marci I split up with my husband earlier this year but am still in touch with my in laws and the whole family. Of course, the fact we have a child together makes a bit of a difference, but I have always got on brilliantly with his parents and my brothers and sister in law so don't see any reason why my relationship with them should suffer just because we are no longer together.

[pigeon toes]

I am still in touch with my ex fiance's mum. At the end of the day, she is my friend. We very rarely talk abouty my ex. He is engaged to someone else. But when we split up me and his mum said that it wasn't going to ruin our friendship, and it hasn't. The fact that her son is my ex is irrelevant.