good on you lass, i'm glad you didn't go ahead with the ex! if i were your hubby i think i would feel uneasy about you texting him still, so maybe you could stop doing it, for him? things seem to be getting better for you two, and maybe the holiday could just be a fresh start for you two? forget about everything else that has happened, and take it upon yourself to make some changes for the future for you both. hopefully its just been a rough patch for you both, and he was too set in his ways always on WOW and you wanted something different that the everyday thing and turned to your ex. well that will all change now! you sound so much happier in yourself and i hope you have a fantastic holiday together (let us know). ps. my hubbys stopped playing on WOW now.... he's turned to lord of the rings instead lol. but we spend quality time together, and i like it just the way it is! :) xxx