I used to go for revenge, but now I am very calm, I have done so many wrong things in my life, real bad things, but now I let things pass, all I did before was to get into trouble because I not only wanted revenge but I wanted them to know it was me that did the things that happened, the only time I would hurt anybody now is if they hurt my family, i am so protective of them, but if it is about your ex sosad, forget it, he will fall in love and the one he loves will treat him bad, what Octavius said is so very true.