unfaithful

[sosad]

why are we unfaithful? Is it out of fear? Is it out of trying to do the right thing and it all goes wrong? Why when you've been unfaithfull do you boys still get a hard on? aren't you surposed to be happy with your new love?

[Octavius]

1. Lots of various reasons including all those noted above
2. I doubt it, why would someone engage in an affair out of fear?
3. I don�t see how that can apply, surely doing the right thing would be to work through the existing relationship?
4. Hurts when you are the one cheated on dunnit?
5. Love can be wonderful and hurtful, you seem to have done both (wonderful to you / hurtful to your husband) whether it is new or not seems irrelevant in such situations.

[jake-the-peg]

I seem to recall some research (done in the US granted) estimated 60% of men were unfaithful at one time or another and 40% of women.

There's an awful lot of it about

[Trinny]

I got totally confused with sosads posts. I didn't realise she had an affair until I read this one.

And doesn't it annoy you when someone puts a question on, and then doesn't respond or give any feedback! Well it does me :(

[sosad]

I know that you all think i am a complete ****. So there's no point me answering your comments. i know I have done wrong. I am now living with the constant reminder. i didn't do it because I was a sla6. never done it before. I was hoping to get some help off you guys, and as you are all so perfect and so quick to condem there's little point, hope none of you ever make a mistake; or believe someone loves you when they don't. and as for hurting my husband. didn't; apart from sharing a house that ended long ago. Thanks for your words of wisdom and your empathy, putting yourselves in my shoes and helping me through a very difficult time. you are all so kind.

[raysparx1]

I am sorry you feel like that sosad, you asked a question about why people are unfaithful, I answered it in what i think is an honest way, I am not knocking you, just answering your question, and you are correct NONE of us are anywhere near perfect, take care and i hope you soon get yourself sorted out and you can be happy again.Ray xx