more troubles from exs!!

[nadcookie]

Heya as some of ye may know me and my ex have been up and down with eachother lately..we have been separated for 4 months but recently before i was going on holidays we ended up talking about gettin back together but decided not to untill we both got back from our different holidays! I am on holidays for a month and im near the end of it now my ex told me when we txted eachother he wasnt gonna snog or go for any more girls untill everything was sorted out! it wasnt a promise really more of a statemetn made by him! But i found out the other day that he snogged a girl at a party! Im coming bck soon and i dont know what to do..weather to try sort things out still or just forget about it again! I kinda dont wanna leave it with what ifs bt i really just dont want to be hurt anymore!I even brought it up during txting him the other day about him snogging another girl..he didnt try to hide it and started rubbing it in! He was being such a ******* that i couldnt even tlk to him! i dont know whats gotten into him now! he told me he misses me and loves me and then he does that!..i need some help and advice i honestly dont know what to do!..x

[4getmenot]

he's a player get the fcuk rid of him.

[redcrx]

you really dont know what to do??? read back what you written as if its a friend of yours, what would your advice be?

[confused79]

Sorry but i agree with 4get he sounds a right player, not only to do that but to rub it in to you, thats just men for you and this one sounds like a waste of space.... sorry.
Im sure you deserve better and there are better men out there.

[4getmenot]

ha may not have even done it and may be rubbing it in to get a reaction but anyone that starts off playing games will always play them. redcrx is right any mate of yours would say the same. It will always be one rule for you and another for him.

[Octavius]

He is probably just looking for some regular interaction from something reliable and familiar. It seems almost certain that even if you do get back together it will just be for rumpy-pumpy with an old flame (many blokes consider this to be a great achievement post-break up) and he will contnue to play the field. Of course if that suits you then tickety boo, it can all be sooper-dooper and lovely again. But it doesn't sound like it.

Take some time out (you need more than a month), meet other new people and go on a few dates. Then see how you feel about your ex.

There is nothing wrong with some ups and downs in a relationship, especially when the ups and downs are between the sheets.

[888sally888]

Get rid - he is NOT worthy of you!!

[Paul_Rook]

If he snogged her while u was on a break take him back

[PhoenixAngel]

Lolz all of your replies are funny :D

Yo Nadcookie...
Well my advice to you is...

You have to speak to him first, that's the first thing, clear up the air. Personally i think yer Bf is one hell of a bstard but that's my opinon and I yh. Anyhoo, after you've spoken to him, just think about the facts, why did he kiss you and so on. I think he just wants to get back with you cuz he's lonely and he wants that salad on the side to keep busy till the main meal, and really that's what he was prob using that gal for when he met her.

I think its totally your own choice tho...but yer :D