Me and sis went out today, stopped for an early evening glass of wine. So sat outside as wanted a ciggi....then these group of 4 blokes decided it was ok to sit with us, and started out, with sayings like "can I come between your legs" and other remarks! i.e, I can read a magazine and **** at the same time, does that make me multi task! we felt very incomfortable,. What is wrong with men huh! No wonder I think men are so pathetic
Talk about coming on strong (oh god, pardon the pun!)
I can't stand such a forward approch, joking or otherwise, it's really offputting. Do they think saying things like that will turn you on so quickly you'll be falling over yourselves to bed them ASAP?!
lee, these blokes were obviously tanked up.... But the thing that really annoyed me is (1) we were a lot older than them and (2) it was the "dreaded outside smokers zone" so not only have have you to smoke outside, you also have endure the drunken idiots too.... they were a nasty bunch albeit the one sober one who asked his mates to move to another table..... but it spoiled a nice evening.........
What w***ers. They were just a bit drunk and showing off. I would have gone back inside and told the bar manager what they were saying. You had no choice but to be outside cos of the new smoking laws. This doesn't mean you should put up with abuse just because you are female.
Trinny--I know these encounters are bad, but on a lighter note, I can't remember the last time a boy/man so much as even glanced my way. Be mildly flattered that they were younger. :)
They may have given you verbal abuse with their smutty comments, but that wanes into insignificance compared to the abuse you were giving your lungs and heart with cigarettes.
To be brutally honest, if I saw two women smoking outside I would automatically assume they were easy game, if not, on the game.
Stop smoking and I guarantee you will attract a more mild mannered gentleman.
(PS Please note I am joking, but smoking will kill you, these men won't!!!!)
dont even think about going to these places ;broaden you outlook,there is alot of ***** men and girls out there i am not on the male or female side ,always remember talking to someone about a couple that were alcoholics that were married,and we both said they were drunk when they met turned a corner and bumped into eachother,lol