cruthinboy....I understand your use of a similar argument, and you may well be correct in the examples you site. We all weigh up risks in life, and take chances at times with our behaviour. This does not mean that anyone 'deserves' to have anything violent, cruel or frightening happen to them, and I would never say that they did. What this man faces in Iraq is truly horrific. However, I think many people (tho I can't speak for them of course) would find it hard to understand why this man went there to work, with all the risks involved, especially when he has a family who clearly love him dearly and would of course wish him safe. That he knowingly put himself in a position of high dangerous makes the situation no less sad, and I didn't mean to sound heartless, tho I can see that it may come across as that.
I have to say, I do agree that Jamie Lewis's comment is offensive. At best it's humour in bad taste. Don't think I want to pardon that pun Jamie. The UK hostages family made a direct appeal to Tony Blair, as a man in a position fo power who may be able to help(or weren't you aware of that?)....so apart from anything else, THAT is what he has to do with it.