girls

[quest]

hey girls what r the first thing you look for in a guy? and what traits do u prefer from a guy

[pixiewize]

most girls look to be respected, if a guy treats you well then his level of attractivness goes up. confidence is always good, girls have a reputation for being talkers, its always nice to hear a new voice back though. hummour, if a guy can make you laugh you produce the body's natural happy pill and you feel better about yourself, which leads to thinking "hey when im with this guy i feel happier, healthier and i have a higher self esteem, this guy must be good for me." if you are looking for what a girl looks for, looks wise, then thats more individual, but i find that making an effort in your appearance is good. x

[pameve]

I like a guy who is a gentleman, you can open doors and pull out my chair anytime. But I also like a guy who is strong. I love being a woman and don't want to "wear the pants". Be thoughtful and sweet, but be an animal in bed.

[Doolallygirl]

I want a best friend. Someone who listens well (I'm a very good chatter!) and talks well in at least equal parts but can shut up when I want a rant about something. I want someone who can put up with my mood swings, someone who will buy my tampax for me (!!), someone who will buy me flowers or chocolates when I'm ill or feeling down, someone who is passionate about life, who gets on with their mum (very important!), who will get on with my family and friends. Someone who will protect me, women like to feel safe. Someone who will love me when they see me looking rough as a badgers bum first thing in the morning with a hangover. Someone to cook the fry up for me and bring it to me in bed, someone who will share my love of football (not that hard to come by!), someone who will let me pay for dinner and not think I'm trying to make a big point about something by doing so. I want someone who will stick up for me, see my side of things, someone to debate with from time to time. I want someone to walk my dog with, someone who won't mind if I have really strong garlic breath (he will still kiss me anyway!). I want a man who will get jealous of the fact that another man is talking to me (but not to get aggressive about it). Someone who will buy me a cd simply because I say I want it when I see an ad for it and not because I'm hinting that he should buy it. I want someone who accepts me and my weird irks, my bad habits (nail picking, head scratching, loud sneezing). Luckily I've found someone who is all of the above already because otherwise I wouldn't belive this man actually existed!

[shy_girl]

I like guys who are funny then of course theres the superficial side I look for too!

[jills]

First thing I look for in a guy is some form of attraction...that could be anything from a nice bum to a warm smile. But htat's onlya momentary thing, you need more to make you taek the next step. Traits wise....someone honest, trustworthy, funny (it's a cliche, but a good sense of humour is important to me), compassionate, interesting and warm. Over confidence, overtly laddish behaviour, lack of respect for others, any form of bigotry and over indulgence in alcohol would all have me heading in the opposite direction.

[Tha-Flash]

I aint a female but some of my female friends even say they can't stand people who have no backbone... What I mean is, somoene who kisses ass 24/7 and dosn't stand their ground. I dont think anyone can stand that. If you've had an ass kisser at their worst then you'll know. I think humor is a VERY important thing because you dont want a serious (but boring) relationship. You can have a serious, fun relationship if you know what i'm saying. Theres so many different types of humor and what makes people laugh, something ALWAYS makes people laugh, you just have to find it. Confidence is the one you really want, it shows everything. A sincere genuine compliment that you've actually noticed about her is nice too, not something you've read off a website or copied from a book like "you have beautiful eyes". Say something that you've noticed thats attractive to you not something that you think will work. I dont say good looks is everything but if she isn't good looking then chances are I wont date her. I dont date girls who think I should buy them loads of stuff either. She could have a nice personality and if she isn't attractive to me then I wouldn't date her but i'd still talk to her as a friend. If there was a hot babe who was very attractive but had a crappy personality/attitude, then i'd walk the f*** away knowing shes got the problem. At least when I have problems I realise it :]

[georgit79]

Personally, I like a guy who replies to my emails!

[buchanan]

Nice eyes, sense of humour, kind but no push over. Intelligent, loyal with a sense of family. Did I mention nice eyes? Oh yes and jumpable.