Hi starwars, I am sorry about the results of your scan and I know it must be a bit of a shock hearing that you were clear on one thing but having another problem. All I can tell you is that in the X-ray department where I work we have a cleft lip/palate clinic where the children are having reconstructive surgery etc, and the results really are amazing. I think a few years ago when they first started operating it was more of a looks thing but now loads of people get involved such as dentists, oral surgeons and plastics to ensure every aspect is covered from the teeth to eating and swallowing.
Be strong, you, I and others know all you ever want is a perfect baby ,but you know what sometimes you don't get it for one reason or another and you just get on with it and you love them just the same. Never forget that you will be baby Harveys first love, and he will love you unconditionally from the moment he sees you,just as you will.
Good Luck and God bless
fuzzy x