Dilemma!

[shinyhappy]

Weird question and quite long but please help! Im 16. A few months ago i joined a club which several of my friends have been going to for years. whilst there, i met my best friends ex-boyfriend for the 1st time. After a while, we got to be good friends, and he asked me out. I was v.nervous because i was, well, kind of new to that kind of thing! anyway - several people warned me off him (including my best mate) , told me he was a user, and moody and was v.flirtacious with loads of girls. anyway i ignored them and agreed to go out with him. we had a good time, but he suddenly broke it off, for no apparent reason. people assured me this was just a sign of his moodiness, + that i was better off with out him- and it turns out that this is what happened when he went out with my mate. Trouble is, he's apologised and wants to get together again now. I stil really care about him, but i dont want to get hurt again. what should i do?!

[tomd]

Stay away from him, obviously. If everyone told you that's what he's like, and that's what he was like to your mate, and that's what he's was like to you, then.. well, to be fair it's fairly conclusive proof that he's not worth bothering with. As you say (in a roundabout way) you haven't been associated with many boys before, don't get hung up on one for too long. If you let your feelings for him grow he'll only take advantage of that.

[gerry]

You should ask him why he broke up with you in the first place and why all of a sudden does he want to get back with you?.Trust me when i say this but there is nothing worse than somebody playing with your feelings.If this is the kind of guy that he is, then your better off without him.

[crazy chick]

Stay well clear!

[BenDToy]

How many times will this happen before you realise that your friends are right? Get out and stay out.

[david small]

Move on.

[shinyhappy]

Cheers guys. you're right, of course ur right. i think i probably new that before i asked, but thank u all so much for ur advice - u've made me see sense! cxx