feelings and hurt

[devilwoman]

why is it that the people who you love and care about are always the ones you hurt and upset you?

[Dr Red]

Thats life devilwoman.
I have 2 good friends who are married and have no family.
Sadly one of them has got cancer. I have been praying for her. They never upset me and i always like to have a good chat to them. Anyway, friends can upset you and you can hurt them, but if they are a true friend, they will forgive you.

[bensmum]

It's because you love and care for them. If someone you didn't care for said or did something to you it would mean nothing but coming from a loved one it will hurt.

[amidacious]

When you're so close to people they feel they can say hurtful things because they know you will always be there still after an arguement and most times only an apology will bring you close together again.
Sometimes they tell you the truth which hurts.
Sometimes you fall out because you spend too much time together and get on eachothers nerves ;)

x

[devilwoman]

thanks for your answers guy, it sure does hurt when your very best friend lets you down, altho not meaning to,
and dr red, soo sorry about your friens with cancer, that must be a real blow for you,. thats the part i love about having a real friend, when you say sorry and make up, its the best feeling in the world