hey hippyhoppy

[yes-doc]

Hiya, How's it going?
We're all thinking about you!
Have you discovered if he's being horrible to you?
I don't mean face to face.
I bet I know his angle in that respect.
Have you seen a solicitor yet?
Worried about you, i think you are very trusting.
Believe what people say. That makes you vunerable, I feel an urgent need to protect you and your kids! Please talk to us!

[hippyhoppy]

I'm fine - the kids too. I've decided to sell the house - seen a nice shiny new one I fancy - and 'he' has said that he will support us. All a bit strange really, esp after the holiday situation. However, I shall keep you posted and how sweet of you to ask. Still not told my parents that he's gone! Quite easy given that they live 200 miles away and are ancient. As I say, I shall keep you posted...

[yes-doc]

Really glad you'r fine & the kids!!!
You know when he says he will support you, he has to, I think, especially if he wants to see the kids.
I hope you'r not being too soft on him.
Please take some legal advice on your own - don't take him with you, i bet you were thinking of doing.
If moving house will help you, go for it girl. - a nice siny new one - no mantainance, - like your thinking!!!
Have you considered if moving is another change in a short space of time for the kids? you know them best of all.
Has he admitted he's seeing someone else?
Ohhhh I could slap him for you......
You take care and have some fun?
write soon.
Have you joined that gym you were on about?

[hippyhoppy]

Well, spent the last few days frantically cleaning the house in order to get it valued, but keep changing my mind as to whether to move or not. The place I've seen is only 5 minutes away, but it's on a new development and the kids will still be at their schools etc. My daughter want's to go but my son needs a bit more persuading. I have to bribe him to come when I go to Asda, so god only knows what it will take to move home!!

The gym is still on the back burner - however saying that now I only have to cook for the kids I'm bothering to eat proper meals (don't tell me off!) and I've lost over half a stone since Easter without even trying!

Thanks for you're concern. It is really lovely and appreciated.

[yes-doc]

I think the weight loss is a normal occurance when you've been hit with a blow like this, especially if you were still in love with him.

Have you made an appointment to see a solicitor yet?
The advice they will give might make you feel differently. my friend was advised to ensure she kept her house or one of equal size. so that her other half couldn't come back and say 'i'v got better occomodation, so i want the kids'. it's not where he lives now, it's where he'll live when everything is signed and sealed from the finicial point of view

I wouldn't dream of telling you off for not eating properly, you will start to eat when you've heeled a bit more.

Anytime