People always say you find it when your not looking and i guess that must be true for some. But sometimes when you look you can find it too. I hadnt been in a serious relationship for about 2 years and i have to say i was a happy single mum. Being on my own for that long had made me help myself resolve a lot of issues from my past and feel so much happier in my life.
In the past i had been in a lot of bad relationships and i now knew i wanted different. All this confidence started to get me noticed again and i was even turning down offers! Not meeting the right bloke though so I decided to join some dating websites, something i swore i'd never do!
It worked though, i only joined for about 3/4 months and had three dates and i'm still with the 3rd, its only been 6 months but i am very happy!
Good luck.