Grrr! How rude!

[indieanna86]

Would you say this is rude?

There is a guy here at work, he doesn't actually work for this company but runs his own business from a little office upstairs. He uses our kitchen and our food for lunch (bought by our company). When he makes his lunch he doesn't bother cleaning up after himself, leaving crumbs everywhere, pickle on the work tops, bits of cheese lying around etc. and he doesn't was up cutlery/plates he has used.
As there are only 2 women working here, it's sort of an unwritten rule that we do the washing up and I explained to this guy that its not fair on us that he does this. We shouldn't have to clean up after him, wipe up his mess etc, especially as he isn't a part of the company.
He then gets all defensive, saying that I'm a typical woman for moaning about it and pretty much makes me look a joke. I'm busy enough as it is, without having to be nanny to full grown men.
Am I making too much of this or is he just being plain rude?? :(

[rasmus]

Hi again Indie,been thinking about this some more and this is what i would do.You and the other lady,take in a packed lunch and a flask or bottle of pop and stay at your work station,dont go into the kitchen at all,that way your`e not using any cups/cutlery so why would you be expected to wash up?