Hi MrsCheeks, I'am glad that you have found products that help, but I would have thought using creams etc round the eyes risky unless you know the exact problem.
As you say some eye drops can irritate rather than help, and I can understand the problem with allergies...my mother is allergic to many antibiotics and antihistamines including Anthasan. Oh and she's allergic to insect bites!!!
SPK.. having digressed...I would still advise seeing the doctor again, as without a diagnosis over the counter medication may make the problem worse. If necessary ask for a referal to a specialist....Another thought, some A&E departments have an eye unit, could be worth a visit as they 'eye orientated'.
hope you get on OK