Visitation Rights

[Blue Jeans]

I have recently split with my partner who is the mother of my lovely son. We were not married. I would love to see him as often as possible but she says I will never see him again. I'd look after him myself if the law would let me, but right now he lives with her. What can I do?

[Ethel]

How old is the child?

Is your name on the birth certificate?

Do you support the child financially? Have your family (your parents and so on) been involved with your son up until now?

[Blue Jeans]

My son is 7 months old. My name is on the birth certificate. I moved 180 miles to live with my girlfriend, so giving up my job. However, work is in the pipeline and support will be too, without question. My family, due to distance, get to see my son very little.

[Ethel]

You are in a good position - the law changed a few years ago and you have automatic parental responsibility as your name is on the birth certificate.

She cannot stop you seeing your son - although you may have to go to court to force the issue.
Have a read of this - print it off and give her a copy

http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/fam ilyandfriends/pregnancyandparenthood/birthfath ersrights

This is of course assuming there is no reason why you should not have contact - drug addict and so forth.

[Blue Jeans]

No... there is no other reason why I should not have access. Thank you Ethel. You have been most helpful. I will read that article. Regards. x

[Annlinda]

Get things moving quickly. It always amazes me that Dad's put up with not seeing their children for months before they actually take action through the family court.i.e.contact
The childrens act states that it is the childs right to know its parents. In family court the childs welfare is paramount