I am Becoming like my mother

[puddicat]

I am becoming so like my mother as i am getting older,she is a recluse in her house, super friendly when she is out and about, but locks herself away in her garrison,she hoards loads of tat!, and then when she has a abundance of it dumps it on me and gets quite uppity when i say that i am trying to clear some of my tat!,and she doesnt like anyone coming into her house, havent been up to hers in years, i am finding that i am getting like her, and i dont want to be like that, my son has moved to ireland, and i am not particularly devasted that he has gone, as i didnt see him much when he only lived 15miles away, my mum is so distant with her emotions, and i am getting like that!

[deadlock]

you poor lonely puddicat.we all end up like our parents [dna] and all that.have a boot sale with all your old tat and include your mum in on the venture.you could start talking on a whole different level. from deadlock...cheer up

[cruella]

Hi puddicat.
Think you may just be in a bit of a rut at the moment.
We all go through phases like that at one time or another.
But hey, if you are comfortable with your lifestyle, what is the harm.
I tend to feel like that from time to time, but work helps.
It just may be that you are a bit down at the moment if things are going on in your life.
Maybe it would be an idea to go see your GP and explain how you are feeling.
Only you know if there is a good reason for feeling the way you do.
Talk to your GP. It won't do any harm.
Hope you perk up soon.

[cruella]

Can I come too Legend?

[puddicat]

Hi cruella thats the trouble work to much thats where i have been this afternoon and again 2morro, think i will go with a mattress strapped to back as i am there so often, not cos i want to be need the money!, dont want to go and get tablets, trying to sort things out with out them, had to get sleeping pills a few weeks ago due to working nighshift, a holiday that sounds great, will think about going to the reef and meeting the legendary legend, thanks guys for your support1

[Meg]

There's nothing wrong with pulling up the drawbridge when you want to, as long as you know you're still sane, and can (happily) live without interference from other people,enjoy!