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you are going to have to make a lot more sacrifices than to stop smoking - you haven't even had the baby yet, you have a whole life time of protecting your baby.
please start now - it will be the best thing you could ever do, i know its hard (as i did) and i know i gave my baby the best start in life. Once you have stopped you will have the best feeling ever and your baby will not thank you enough.
Put it this way - if, god forbid, something happened or the baby was very small etc - WOULD YOU EVER FORGIVE YOURSELF?
please start now - it will be the best thing you could ever do, i know its hard (as i did) and i know i gave my baby the best start in life. Once you have stopped you will have the best feeling ever and your baby will not thank you enough.
Put it this way - if, god forbid, something happened or the baby was very small etc - WOULD YOU EVER FORGIVE YOURSELF?
Have you ever seen the poster in doctors surgery of a new born baby hooked upto a ventilator with ' I've been on ciggies for 9 months and now I'm on a pipe'. I smoked before I had my kids but their health was more important than my nicotine craving.
Do yourself and your baby a favour and just stop. Yes I know it's easier said than done- but how worth it will it be. Put the money you'd usually spend on fags in a pot and watch it grow until you've had the baby - then either treat yourself or the baby.
Do yourself and your baby a favour and just stop. Yes I know it's easier said than done- but how worth it will it be. Put the money you'd usually spend on fags in a pot and watch it grow until you've had the baby - then either treat yourself or the baby.
If this is for real then i have to say it is hard to give up when pregnant. My first was not planned and giving up smoking just like that is really hard. I had depression also and believed at the time that smoking helped. I know it didnt. I was not a heavy smoker anyway and did smoke even less, i did actually stop when i was about 6/7mths, i knew i really didnt want to smoke when baby was born so just had to do it. After baby arrived I never bothered about it until the first time i went out when baby was about 2 mths old. So i just smoked when i went out (not very often) never with baby, and now 4 yrs later i havent had one for about a year. Giving up was a gradual thing for me and very hard but i had to do it for baby.
My baby was a healthy baby who weighed 8lb 6oz but i know i was lucky, i did feel guilty about it as he might not have been. I would never smoke in pregnancy again and would say that you should try.
If you are a heavy smoker then there are stop smoking classes that do work. Try to do it while your pregnant because you will probably do it round baby if not and that just isnt fair on him/her. It would be the best thing you could do for your baby. Good luck.
My baby was a healthy baby who weighed 8lb 6oz but i know i was lucky, i did feel guilty about it as he might not have been. I would never smoke in pregnancy again and would say that you should try.
If you are a heavy smoker then there are stop smoking classes that do work. Try to do it while your pregnant because you will probably do it round baby if not and that just isnt fair on him/her. It would be the best thing you could do for your baby. Good luck.
Banjo, just give up. I found it a lot easier than expected. Before I fell regnant I was a serial quitter, every Monday I would stop, then the following Monday I would stop again because I had started again on the Tuesday, etc etc.
From the moment I found out I was pregnant I stopped and haven't had one since; just think of the little one, it's tough enough for them already without increased risk of miscarrriage or respiratory disease like ashtma once they are born - it;s not their fault, and it will do you the world of good. Please try x x x
From the moment I found out I was pregnant I stopped and haven't had one since; just think of the little one, it's tough enough for them already without increased risk of miscarrriage or respiratory disease like ashtma once they are born - it;s not their fault, and it will do you the world of good. Please try x x x
dont encourage it for gods sake! i smoked during pregnancy and when my daughter was born (healthy thankgod) by elective c-section i was told her plancenta was white instead of blood red and if i'd of gone on any longer she wouldve been starved of oxygen, i feel awful now n would never ever do it again, she's 4 now n i still feel as guilty as i did the day i had her