Guys working away.

[littlesheep]

Hey.

Is it normal to worry about what your guy gets up to if he works away?? I trust my guy deep down and I know he'd do his best but still find it hard not to worry. I think it's other women I mostly don't trust but also him if he's had a few drinks and someone really doesn't take no for an answer. He works away, sometimes just over a week at a time and I hate him not being here. To make it worse he works in hotels and I do too so I've seen what goes on and how easy it is when you've got a bar all to yourself in the evening, a room upstairs and nowhere else to go. I've seen so many guys cheat while living in at a hotel and their girlfirends are back at home. I wish I could stop worrying. I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant and I'm worried as I get bigger, he'll find me less attractive and be more likely to find it hard to resist drunken offers.

Does anyone else get like this or have any advice??

[alijangra]

My partner works away. I have no trust issues whatsoever. I dont trust other women, but I DO trust him. Maybe you are thinking about things more because you are pregnant and everything is now more serious, and if he doesnt find you more beautiful now that you are pregnant then there is something wrong with him! Some guys will cheat without a thought, others could be bombarded with offers from beautiful women but would never ever cheat because they are decent and honest individuals. Do you really think he is the kind of guy to jump into bed with some drunken tart he meets in a hotel??