do our stepsons really ruin our lives

[chesnuts]

i have always loved my dogs, lost a mastiff, had to rehome a rottie becos of my stepson shud we allow tham to control our lives or tell our currect partners woth these evil kids where to go

[sambro]

How much taunting and hitting will the dog put up with before it defends itself? tThen you wont be rehoming it . You will have to PUT IT TO SLEEP!!!! For gods sake get yourself and your dog away from there.

[jodie73]

Chesnuts you didn't mention that they hit and taunt the dogs. If your dogs mean that much then lose your partner and his sons. It's your decision!

[chesnuts]

OH GOD help me, everything u say is complete, normal, eficient, ands right. You know i have looked at jake my dog tonight and talked to him, he only obeys me. y cant i have both of them my hubbie who sems to adore my dogs and my dogs, its my 1 coming onto 18 that causes the trouble, wot is his problem why is he lewd, y cant he see iam not to blame for his parents splitting up?
but blaming it on dogs who he reckons WONT EVA EVA EVA EVA turn, in other words he can hit them make fun of them etc and LUke the steson king will win, y i a so troubled becos 1 day ,my dogs r gonna say no, this storey has no happy ending, its who goes first.

[chesnuts]

I am so pleased i met the answerbank i admit i am still unsure scared afraid alone and totally freaked out but i hear yr words and thank u

[chesnuts]

Everyones words are true and have given me time 2 think thanku

[dot.hawkes]

isn;t it really odd that you and rox1981 have the same problem, freaky or what?

[iheartruby]

So you're supposed to accept his son yet they wont accept your dog??? MADNESS! And this little so and so had been hitting your dgos? Do you REALLY need to ask? Get rid of the ignorant little $hit and get your dog back. No way would I have that - I'd be on my own for the rest of my life before I'd part with my animals.

[chesnuts]

Oh My, I have just read this thread and I would like to apologise to of you guys who have taken the time to be bothered to comment on my thread. I would like to say to Dot Hawkes you obviously picked up on how pathetic I was last night, to all of you I got very drunk last night and YEAH should not have switched the computer on and waffled like an idiot when everyone had been so kind and good to me, I am really sorry I feel pathetic when i have read my inaudible comments, I wont make excuses but ask that you guys ignore my last nights comments and accept my thanks.

[ruthann58]

hi chesnuts hope you feel a bit better today dont worry about getting a bit drunk and pouring your heart out on here, you were obviously feeling pretty low at that time and needed to talk hope all goes well with your step son 18 is a real $hit age i know i have 2 boys but they do come out the other side but its bl--dy hard till they do. when hes about try to keep your dog with you or shut it in another room out of his way i know you shouldnt have to but its better to keep the dog safe ruthxx