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how do you ?
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how do you, or would you.
get someone to backoff romantically?
i dont mean dump someone or ditch them.
i just mean to let them know theyre getting a bit heavy , commitment wise?
you know when youre with someone , or seeing them in a more casual way.
and theyre just getting that bit closer than you want?
isnt it awful when you want to get a little space but someones almost smothering you , not in a bad way.
but they just cant see that theyre moving at a different speed to you .
how do you do it without hurting them ?
but also without falling out with them too?
its easy to just end everything but not if you really care about them.
my god im sounding like jeremy kyle here.
get someone to backoff romantically?
i dont mean dump someone or ditch them.
i just mean to let them know theyre getting a bit heavy , commitment wise?
you know when youre with someone , or seeing them in a more casual way.
and theyre just getting that bit closer than you want?
isnt it awful when you want to get a little space but someones almost smothering you , not in a bad way.
but they just cant see that theyre moving at a different speed to you .
how do you do it without hurting them ?
but also without falling out with them too?
its easy to just end everything but not if you really care about them.
my god im sounding like jeremy kyle here.
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well you shouldnt imagine everyone online is the same in real life.
i dont imagine most are.
why would i try to do that berry?
surely then i would miss out myself too??
i prefer to chat in chatterbank.
i didnt say thta this related to me .
it could be a friend of mine who doesnt wanna post ?
some folk arent as outgoing as others.
but thanks for all the advice .
even though the answers were limited : -)
i dont imagine most are.
why would i try to do that berry?
surely then i would miss out myself too??
i prefer to chat in chatterbank.
i didnt say thta this related to me .
it could be a friend of mine who doesnt wanna post ?
some folk arent as outgoing as others.
but thanks for all the advice .
even though the answers were limited : -)
ooooh lol one does not give to receive....
ok, predicament?
How long has this been going on? casual is one night isn't it? not going back for more and more and then saying 'actually' I'm only interested in getting my end away and I'll keep coming back till you realise that that is all you are. A continuous one night stand. oh yeah... I care.
I say keep going till she finds someone better then.
That's for your mate btw Leg. ;) xxx
ok, predicament?
How long has this been going on? casual is one night isn't it? not going back for more and more and then saying 'actually' I'm only interested in getting my end away and I'll keep coming back till you realise that that is all you are. A continuous one night stand. oh yeah... I care.
I say keep going till she finds someone better then.
That's for your mate btw Leg. ;) xxx
It depends what your mate really feels for this girl. If he is interested in having a relationship with her but feels she's moving too quick, then it's best he is honest and maybe just agrees to see her on certain nights so that he gets the space he needs. If she likes him she may be a little put out, but she should understand.
If he just wants her as a friend then he has to make that very clear and not act in a way that's giving her the wrong signals.
If he just wants her as a friend then he has to make that very clear and not act in a way that's giving her the wrong signals.
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