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well i did it, it was hard,. i wanted to just run away but i stayed and told him everything that i knew and all that i had heard as well and leave him to draw his own conclusions and investigate his self. He swore at me to start and i thought he might hit me and i was thinking i had made a big mistake but then he calmed down and said thanks for telling him and he is more annoyed at everyone else who knowes that hasn't told him than he was at me. I on't know really how he took the actual news, i guess he was pretty shocked and is still taking it in but he knowes where i am if he needs a shoulder, other than that i will leave him few days to get over it and then check up on him becuase i feel if it was me i would want to be left alone at first. Its done now anyway so whether it was right or wrong, good or bad way to do it, its done